There is a saying goes , “ life without a friend is a life without a sun ”，that is To say , Frie ndship is in dispe nsable to people's life.
有句谚语说，“人生没有了朋友就犹如失去了阳光”，这也就是说，友谊对人的生活是不可
缺少的。
Frie ndship is to our life what salt is to dasher . When you are happy, frien dship is just like addi ng flowers on the brocade; whe n you are sad, frien dship is a dose of con solati on; if you are in trouble, friends will surround you and remove the barriers for you; if you have a hard nut to crack, you can turn to friends for help.
友谊是我们的生活中的调味品。
当你快乐的时候，友谊就像是盛开的鲜花，展现在你面前，当你可悲时，友谊是一剂安慰；如果您遇到了麻烦，朋友们将会出现并帮你解除困难，如果
你有一个难办的事，您可以找朋友获得帮助。
Every one n eed frien ds, and if you fail to make frien ds, you should exam ine yourself and see if there is someth ing wrong with your pers on ality. Maybe you have social faults such snobbishness, talkativeness and using slang etc. All of that will drive your new acqua intan ces. Whatever your social faults may be, look at them hon estly and make real effort to correct them.
每个人都需要朋友，如果你不能交到朋友，就该反省自己，看是否的你的个性有什么问题。
或许你有些在社交上应该避讳的缺点：譬如势力、饶舌、说脏话等等。
这些都会妨碍你结交
新朋友。
无论你有什么社交缺点，都应该正视它们，并努力改正。
However, what 'actual difficult is that friendship is easier made than kept. There are several importa nt eleme nts n ecessary to main tai n a good frien dship.
然而，真正困难的是：友谊容易得到却不易保持。
要想维持友谊以下几方面是必不可少的了.
Liste n .The ability to really liste n to ano ther is a corn erst one of good frien dship. It helps you to un dersta nd your friend and his/her feeli ngs, as well as shows that you really care.
善于倾听。
倾听是友谊的基石，它有助于你更好的了解你的朋友同时又表示你在关心你的
朋友。
Spend quality time with your friend .No relati on ship can be satisfy ing without quality time spend together . Make time for your friend, schedule get together .
与朋友相聚。
没相聚就没友谊。
所以抽点时间与朋友一起聚聚
Be forgivi ng. There is n ot even one pers on in the world who is perfect. You know your own shortco min gs, so don't expect perfect ion from others. I'm not say ing that you should always accept a wrong doing on your frien d's part. Tell them whe n you did n't like someth ing and be always ready to make up afterward. Don't hold grudges in your heart .It will help your friend to be Ion g-sufferi ng with you as well.
宽容。
人无完人，任何人都有自己的缺点，所以就不要要求别人完美。
我并不是叫你一味的纵容朋友的错误，相反你应该明确的告诉你的朋友，不要藏在心底，这对你和你们自己的
友谊都是有好处的
Admit your faults」n every friendship there will be conflict sooner or later. When it
comes，ofte n the wrong is on both sides Admit your wrongs in stead of just poin ti ng out
the wrongs of another person involved .This will help you both to keep the line of com muni catio n ope n and stre ngthe n your frien dship
勇于承认自己的错误.朋友相处迟早都会产生冲突的，但产生误会和冲突时双方都是有责
任的我认为勇于承认自己的过错比追究责任更有助于解决问题和增进友谊
In short, whe n we have established frien dship, we ought to cherish and treasure it by means of words and deeds. Only thus, can we develop real frien dship and keep the sacred lamp of frien dship bur ning all our life.
简言之，建立了友谊之后，要通过言语和行动来珍惜友谊，像爱护宝物一样爱惜友谊。
只有这样，才能发展真正的友谊，让神圣的友谊之灯照亮我们一生。