1. A good heart is what you are pursuing. Talk with your partners about your understanding of what makes a goodheartWhen you decide to do something, stick to it. consistently, I would be able to accomplish everything….2. How do you understand love? Can you give some examples to illustrate the true love you have got?love is just a sense between two people. It can not be measured by money. But it is also very practical,you must spend a long time to feel it before you make your decision3. What’s your opinion about keeping pets? Please talk about the benefits and drawbacks of keeping pets.In my opinion,we can have pets ,dogs for example,because they are loyal to us and we can keep them clean and do some exercise to defeat disease .But what we should really do is to protect animals rather than only have fine.4. Have you ever thought about the differences between motherly love and fatherly love? What roles do they playin the raising of a child?I have different opinion with him. In my point of view, I take parents’ love as the same thing—true love. True love is a love that will never fade away regardless of time flying, true love is a love that people treat you heart and soul without asking for any repay, true love is always surrounding us given by our parents, friends, or our lovers, no matter how far you are, you can still feel it. My parents love me because I am their child no matter I can live up to their expectations or not.. Father’s love has a common characteristic. That is quite implicit. When compared with mothers, fathers are not that good at expressing their loves for children. Besides, fathers concern more about children’s life career rather than small daily things. They would like to listen to children’s confusions and give their suggestions in order to help them overcome mental problems.5. Misunderstandings are quite common in our daily life. How can we avoid misunderstandings when wecommunicate with other people?First, people with different personal and cultural backgrounds may have diverse perspectivesin interpreting one behavior. misunderstanding occurs because of a lack of mutual trust . Firstly, we should be broad minded and be tolerant of the differences among people. Secondly, we should be accurate and appropriate in our handle of language, avoiding misleading words. Thirdly, we should be constructive and patient in dealing with people. If we try hard enough, there will be more understanding and less misunderstanding in this world.2|评论6. It is said that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Men and women often misunderstand each otherin communication. Why can’t they communicate well with each other? Please give examples to support your analysis.Yes, I agree. Male speakers are more straightforward, and female speakers are more indirect. For instance, if a man says: “You don't look good in that dress,” he means what he says. In contrast, a woman might say: “That's a beautiful dress!” when she actually means she doesn't like the dress.Females will always consider whether her words will hurt others feelings before she just says it7. Gender differences(性别差异)make men and women speak differently. What other differences may causepeople to speak differently?I think, besides gender differences, differences in social position, education background, culture, occupation and age may also cause problems in understanding each other.To a certain person, his personalities, likes and dislikes or value systems. All these work together to lead to different personal styles or ways of communication.8. How do you clear up misunderstandings when they arise? T ell your story and give some suggestions abouthow to get rid of misunderstandingsFirstly, we should be broad minded and be tolerant of the differences among people. Secondly, we should be accurate and appropriate in our handle of language, avoiding misleading words. Thirdly, we should be constructive and patient in dealing with people. If we try hard enough, there will be more understanding and less misunderstanding in this world.9. Successful communication is essential to a good relationship. Have misunderstandings ever occurred betweenyou and your parents? How do you clear them up?10. Discuss with your partners who is a winner in your eyes. Give reasons.A winner in my eyes must be a brave one. The brave here is not a rude person who never think beforeactions, but a real brave who dare to do dangerous but very meaningful things while others don’t. Obstacles and setbacks given by lives will only be the source of motivation, which inspire them to strive for success. Fortune favors the brave because they are ones who stands out from ordinary people.―11. Whom do you admire most? What characteristics does he/she have?For me, linkon is such a brave person. He set free the black and unit the states in the risk of sacrificing his precise life. He did it and people will remember what he had done for the US forever.12. What’s your idea of a successful life?Who do you think is most successful in life? (In what way is she / hesuccessful?)13. What does winning mean to you? And what qualities does a person need in order to be a winner?14. What do you think of the relationship between family background and success? Do you think it possible for aperson from humble background to succeed? Why or why not?15. What is your ambition or dream? What will you do to achieve your ambition or realize your dream?16. What do you think is the most important factor in realizing one’s dream? What is the hardest thing to do inpursuing one’s dream?17. Please c omment on the following statement: In pursuing a dream, one must keep a balance between one’sstrong wish for th e dream to come true and the realities of one’s abilities and circumstances.18. Do you think one can finally succeed in whatever he is doing by never giving up? Why or why not?19. Can you give a definition of the term “placebo”? What functions does the p lacebo serve?20. Susan is a shy girl. She is afraid of talking with others. Try to be a psychologist to come up with a solution or togive her some advice.7.What accounts for success?I think devotion and hard work are the most important things. You will never succeed if you can’t put your heart into it. And nothing is impossible if you make up your mind to pursuing your dreams. But you won’t be able to succeed if you are stupid. T o a certain degree, a good opportunity is also indispensable for it can give you a chance to show your talent. But Opportunities only favor those who are prepared. 8.what characteristics do winners or losers have?Winners are honest and independent. They seldom imitate others. Though they learn from others, they make their own decisions. Winners are confident people. Only when people believe they could do something well will they have a chance to succeed. Winners are always energetic. They have great passion for people around them and are interested in everything they do. On the other hand, losers are very dependent. They expect others to help them and always think others are better. Losers seldom try to form their own opinions. Losers are always afraid of being laughed at by others, so they almost never take any risk.9.do you consider yourself a winner?what do you need to become a winner?I think I am a winner. In my opinion. Winners are person who can always make progress regardless of the changeable situations. Besides they get to realize their potentials by overcoming obstacles they have ever met. Maybe it is unbelievable, but I am a shy girl who dares to speak in front of the class when I was young. But I told myself if you want to be a successful person in your life you must conquer the fear. And finally I make it.。