LOVE IS THE ACT OF ENDLESS FORGIVENESS
Nijole V. Benokraitis once said in his article LOVE AND LOVING RELATIONSHIPS :"Love—as both an emotion and a behavior—is essential for human survival".
There is a beautiful and meaningful love-related sentences kept in my mind:Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other,but in looking outward together in the same direction.
As Nijole V. Benokraitis said:Love has many dimensions.It can be romantic,exciting,obsessive,and irrational.It can also be platonic,calming,altruistic,and sensible.
Different people have different opinions about the same thing.As far as I am concerned,Love is an act of endless forgiveness.
Lili have kept a long-term love relationship with her boyfriend for six year since the beginning of 2006.She is particular about clothes,eating and even something unimportant.She wants to do everything perfectly and can't put up with a small carelessness of details.Even the friends around Lili have no ideas about how to get along with her.All in all,she is a typical perfectionist.
It is no denying that it's difficult to keep intimate relationship with her,let alone a long-term love relationship.
After the period of their short romantic courtship,the fighting between him and her started from Lili.She always launches into a precise listing of
her boyfriend's little faults and something unpleasant he has done for her,and her litany would last a long time.
However,almostly,he listen to her carefully and patiently.And then he would apologise and then try his best to make Lili happy.He always said :"to err is human,to forgive,divine."
When she calms down,he would always tell her his own perception and the reasons, Then , he would give enough time to let her weigh the gains and losses.
Five years past,we are all amazed with Lili's changes,she is tolerant,magnanimous,and cautious.she told us that it is the endless forgiveness that maintain their love.。