中国文化China's Top Ten Sacred LoveAbstract:In the pre-building of China, it was filled with a strong flavor of literature, and therepresentative of it is a group of passionate, dedicated poet and writer. Especially after I read some books talking about them, especially the book "China’s Top Ten Sacred Love”, I have many feelings about them, so I order the ranking as followings according to my own thoughts on the book.Key words: evaluation arranged-marriage romance feudalism tradition sentimentalistNO.1 Xu ZhimoEvaluation: My love, my feeling never comes back.With the appearance of a TV series "The W orld’s April Day ", Xu Zhimo, the brilliant poet became a household youth icon, so his love life was slowly understood by people, he first wife Zhang Youyi who was born in the noble family didn't give a romantic love life as he wishes, because in his eyes she is a “little feet “woman under the influence of feudal traditional ideas, however, as for him is the “suit” man under the new ideas of the western countries, therefore, the marriage between he and Zhang Youyi became the dislocation of "feet and suit", while Xu is a man who longs for romance so much. So that later when he encountered a beautiful girl named Lin Huiying who was the daughter of his best friend Lin Changmin, he fell in love with her immediately and regarded her as his "the only partner of the soul" , which led to his divorce with Zhang Youyi with the excuse that "feet and suit don’t match at all". However, good time doesn’t la st long, Lin departed from him, which made a beautiful poem “Farewell to Cambridge Again”，how pity it is !But soon after, and he was in love again, for his marriage and life ties with another woman who was the most famous communication flower Lu Xiaoman at that time. Although he still loved Lin Huiying and had a part of his heart for her, he also loved his second wife Liu Xiaoman too, and later he stayed with her till the ultimate moment of his life.NO.2 Hu ShiEvaluation: the sacred lover under feudal barriers.Hushi, As a famous modern scholars of China and one of the heroes of the new culture, he had won 25 honorary doctorates in China and a holy reputation of "culture greats" at home and broad. But when you open his love file, you will find that he also has such an affectionate side. though there is a good saying” little feet and Doctor” about his marriage with Jiang Dongxiu since ancient times, for she belonged to one of the poor women under the fluence of fedual ideas in that time and used to bind her feet since she was young. However, Hushi also has the affection quarrels with many othergirls, such as Wei Lianru, Los d Watts, Chen Hengzhe, Cao Peishengl, beyond all doubts, which let his wife Jiang Dongxiu flustered tears, but for the fealty of his mother, he eventually was willing to be the puppet of feudal barrier. Although his marriage with Jiang Dongxiu often have friction, but they had made up a story passed on marriage with approval, and during the time, Hu summed up a set of lover’s view so-cal led "SanCong" that is: “the wife go out should follow, the wife’s command should obey, the wife’s words should be followed even if it is wrong”.how solemn and stirring the love world is!NO.3 Guo MoruoEvaluation: You say someone is cold, but he is hot.Guo Moruo, as a famous contemporary poet, dramatist, historians, Chinese scientists, who read many famous Chinese and foreign literature works from the high school and wrote poetry, prose, novels, biographer and many other works in his life, so that he became a bright flag in tChina's culturature frost. However, except his great literature life, he also has a complex emotional files of love, firstly when he was 20 years old ,he married to a girl named Zhong Qionghua who came from the same village as him under the order of the parents and help of matchmakers, , but later he found the marriage was totally different from which he had imagined before, so at the second day after the marriage he left in order to pursuit his love and happiness at the outside world. Then he met a Japanese girl and madly love her, he gave her a loving call ”Anna” and regarded her as his "virgin Mary", but as he is a sentimentalist , so in the end, she still not won his heart, he left her at home. What’s more, later Guo continuingly lov e with AnLin, his college student; Yu Lichen , a reporter; and eventually he married to Yu’s sisiter Yu Liqun after Yu’s early death. So, although Guo is shameful and grateful to his first wife Zhang Qionghua, and still love the virgin Mary ”Anna” who gave him everything of her life, but his affectionate character condemned him to be guilty only in the choice that live with his second wife Yu LiQun for the rest of his life.NO.4 Zhang AilingEvaluation: The most brilliant female for being seen only once.W hen it comes to China’s talent female of the mordern time, there is a nice name always comes into people’s first thought, that is Zhang Ailing, a talented female writer. Although she was born in the noble family, that did not bring her any luck, and only strengthen her fine, sensitive and objective meditating on the "scholar" temperament. Which has an irreplaceable effect on her emotion world, first is in her love relationship with the traitor Hu Lancheng, because of her sensitive and sentimental disposition, while Hu just are the opposite, which left her hurt deeply with scars in their relationship; Second is her second love with an American Pu dena lama, which eventually turned out to be a failed marriage. At last, the two experiences of her love made her sum up a love view of her own, that is, “she is always in the inappropriate place, the inappropriate time, to love the inappropriate people”.NO.5 Yu DafuEvaluation: Th e romantic scab will never come back again.Yu Dahu, as we know, is a great literature master. however, when it comes to his emotion experience, he is also a sentimentalist , if we say that his first love started from his grade 6 in his primary school, his emotion world was opened by the girl from Zhao family, then the Janpanese girl Houteng Longzi was regarded to be his first real lover. But these two girls could not be the objective of his marriage Beacause of the Arranged marriage under the influence of fedural ideas, he married Sun Quan as the acquire of his family. However, as he was an advanced man with the new ideas, he was extremely discontent with the arranged marriage, so he left home to pursue his happiness and true love. later he met his ture love Wang Yingxia, but just like an old saying "marriage is the grave of love", they eventually broke up , then he fell in love with another girl Li Xiaoying again, and even no long later he married his third wife He Liyou who he spent his rest life time living with. So, these all of all, only unfair to his first wife Sun Quan, a poor woman was deeply persecuted by the feudal traditional thoughts.NO.6 Xiao HongEvaluation: A woman stands on the needle of love.Xiao hong, as a very famous young female writer whose talent was well-appreciated by Lu Xun, she became well-known as her first wor k “ live and dead place” when she was 24, although she has a sorrow family background, her emotional life is bold and aggressive, so when she was still a young girl who was facing to accept the arranged marriage arranged by her parents, she chose to escape from her home forever, what’s more, when she was in distressed and helplessful situation, she chose to give her everything to a man who was her schoolmate once without any hesitations, but when she followed him to his home, she found that he was already a married man, so she was so disappointed and turned back to the street to live by herself, but soon her husband of arranged marriage before came to find her and made her have to be his woman, unfortunely, then he escaped and abandoned her alone. However, later a occassional chance happening, she met a young man named Xiao Jun who later turned to be the ture love of her life, then they began to have a mutual life with happiness and sweetness, what’s more, they eventually cann’t flee the fortune of separation, so she finally married the Japanese man Duan Muliang, while there was another man companying in her hospital bed at the last moment of her life. So we can see, XiaoHong is a sentimental woman with vanity, she needs the man’s arms to go through the bad si tuation, but when the situation turns good, she began to be sentimental and focused on what she cared about, she was selfish, she experienced a few men but she could n’t stay with them for a long time, This is her misfortune but also her fortune, because th ere are men loving her.NO.7 Su ManshuEvaluation: Pursue the soul by the loveSu Manshu, a man who has a tragic life by tonsure in his young age, and ever be the monks for three times. But he was claimed to be a "natural sentimentist ", suffering the bad results of love on his whole life, while he was never refused to listen to the voice of heart and follow the acquire of soul, which is the principle of his emotional and his nature romance, he starteis emotion experiences from his first love Xing Zi ,then his cousin Jing Zi, classmate Xue Yan , Pei Shan, Bai Zhu who was his friend's wife, to the last one He Zhen. What’s more, during the time, he was strugglling between the spirit and fleshd, especially when Xing Zi, the girl he love madly , died suddenly, which hurt him almost lost life direction, so he had no choice but turned to be a monk again. However, dued to his complicated emotion, soon he escaped from the manostery and returned to the flashy world to seek psychological comfort. All his life he was not lack of women, but he ultimately remained an innocent virgin, a buddhist of the faithfulness. And before his death, he wrote the sentence: "all sentient beings are to be free from preoccupations!" .NO.8 Fu LeiEvaluation: A real lover is brave to pursue love and to be loved.Fu Lei, as a famous Chinese literature and art translator, his affection experiences are complex but also is the most happy, he has a naturally disadvantage, that's his character, it was said that he was born with crying loud and anger, so he was called “ calm down the anger”, while he was also born with a talent or being drove by a spirit strenght, but the behavior of that spirit was to make him unknow what he interests most, even he never knew how to hold on. fortunately, his love life helped him, especially his original wife Zhu Meifu because of her great tolerance, although Fu lei has an violent temper, but his first wife live with him and love him all the time , she comforted him when he was hurt by his old acquaintance Madeleine, tolerated his unloyal behavior with a prostitute Huang Li, saved his and his student's sister's overwhelming love, so she was his final winner and the only belongs, even more, in their old age and suffered the political persecution, they chose to died altogether to continued their love in the another world.NO.9 San MaoEvaluation: Seek love on the trampSan Mao, though she was known as a young female writer, was more wanted to be a painter, and the reason why she wanted to do this was combining the thought of a painter and the wish of being Picasso’woman, because she was filled with fantasy extremely since childhood, when she first saw the picture album of Picasso's fine arts from her second cousin , she was struck deeply, so she had a dream that when she grew up she have to marry the man like Picasso who work on art. Therefore, in college, she married a young boy who had performed with her on the same stage together , then she began another hot but no ending love with her collegemate Shu Fan, which become eternal regret of her life. And then another man ,who she met at the foreign country, was also just a passer.Evenmore, the next one who was a German officer also departed from their marriage because of sudden heart attack . then, how to understand? t he god also began to sympathize her, it’s the time she met her ture love who was a Spanishman named He Xi, he companied her and did everything for her, however, she was proved to be a poor woman, after they have a long happy life, he suddenly left her alone home forever, for he was a sailor and died in the sea because of an accident, and later whether the two men Jia Pinao or Wang Luobin couldn’t change her loves of He Xi. However, now we also could get some information about her emotion experience from her great work”The Olive Tree“, That is “life has no township, where is the mind?". How helpless she is!NO.10 Gu ChengEvaluation: The sentimentalist who falls into women’ trapGu Cheng, A famous contemporary poet of China and one of the members of “Chine se writers association”, when it comes to his emotional experiences, which is not complex but sorrow. Because for some extents, Gu’s character is departed from his great soul of mind, he is a never grown-up clild in the life, He hates everything that the matural people did, He fears to grow up, he wants to hide in the child's innocence forever to stay away from the evils of the outside world. even he wants to hide in the mind of kind girl for life. However, he cann’t make those achieved after all, his fanta sy deceives him. He had a good wife, they believed that they could accompany each other for their lifetime, but the girl Yingzi broke into the poet’s emotional world suddenly and finally disturbed the calm lake of his original life. Which also made his marriage life changed, he began to hate his original wife Xie Ye, more unfortunately, no long before Ying Zi left away, which made him almost become a mad man. That also led to that result that he suicided after he killed his wife with an axe in person. So, the sad result let him carry up the corss of bad person forever. How poor the poet is!My ideas: After I read all of their emotion experiences, I find they have many commons and alsofew differences: first, due to the same age they live, they all suffer the bound of arranged marriage from their family. Second, they all have the experience of studying in the foreign countries especially Japan, so that they have the new ideas and object to the feudal tradition ideas. 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