A great woman in Gone with the wind
专业：工商管理姓名：袁莲霞学号：1200701120 成绩"Gone with the wind" is a love story which background of the social reality in the American civil war. The story happens in Atlanta and a nearby plantation .It describes the people's life before and after the civil war in United States and a few love entanglement of youth .Scarlett is the main line in the film.
After watching the film, a lot of people may hate the heroine because of her self-will, hypocrisy, greed, selfishness, behavior to marry sis ter’s boyfriend, ignorance of Rhett’s love. But as for me, her self-confidence, tough , brave, perseverance to revitalize possessions let me admire wholeheartedly.
The film gives me a lot of inspirations and ideas that mainly divided into the following several aspects:
Scarlett is really a stubborn woman. she is confused by love in her most life and do a lot of mistakes. At last, she finds that Ashley she has been loved didn't love her and also do n’t as good as her thought. Precisely, because of her mistakes, she lost her real love beside her. In fact, we can’t avoid to making the same mistakes in the face of love .We always require others should to be perfect but actually ourselves can’t do as we supposed to be in most situations. We claim to pursuit what we call love, but repeatedly ignore those around us again and again. We also often think
that what we can’t get is the best. Until the real lost, we just know to cherish. Everyone is similar.We have no reason to ask Scarlett to do more.
Scarlett has a strong sense of responsibility. In the war, she never leaves Melanie and helps her at the risk of losing her lives. She also shows great courage when Melanie gives birth to a baby. In the face of destroyed home and her mother’s death, Scarlett uncharacteristically shoulders the troubles of her family and friends. The manor has been a part of her life. In order to get funds to pay the taxes on and save her family's beloved home，she sacrifice her happiness and marries her sister's beau. She put the farm as a life struggle target, as her emotional sustenance. Her strong and responsibility consciousness is worthwhile for us to learn.
Scarlett is an optimistic person. When the war happens, she does not give up. When Tara is burned, mother died and father goes mad, she does not give up. When daughter died, Rhett leaves her, she does not give up. “Left to go to tomorrow, anyway, tomorrow is another day.” She is optimistic and strong. If these things happened to us, how many people can do so. Scarlett always is full of hope, never give up, never despair. The spirit needs us to study. So, whenever I meet with difficulties, I will think of this sentence and never give up my dream.We can rest, but we should never give up.
When it comes to friendship, the friendship between Scarlett and Melanie is still let me envy. Scarlett not only hates Melanie but also love her while Melanie trust Scarlett's from start to end. When Melanie dies, Scarlett’s tears show their friendship s have beyond everything. In one's life, who can live without friends? Real friend is one of life's most precious things. Treat our friends sincerely and you will get sincerely.。