婚姻是爱情的另一种新生
这个星期我们学习了一片名为婚姻为何失败的文章，使我感触很深。
我一直这样认为，婚姻是爱情发展到了一定阶段成熟的产物，它是爱情收获的果实。
没有婚姻的爱情只是一个模糊的画面，而婚姻是画中真实的美景，有了婚姻才有了美好而充实的生活。
处在爱情中的两个人在很大程度上都是一种不真实的美，两者面对对方的时候表现的都是各自的优点，都有虚伪的成分，很难真正的了解对方，只有通过婚姻，在生活中体会爱情，才能体会到爱真正的含意。
当今动荡的世界有的人并不渴望婚姻，认为谈恋爱就结婚只是一种过时的想法。
他们说婚姻是爱情的坟墓，试想如果婚姻是坟墓，为什么有那么多人走进了婚姻的礼堂？
也许有人认为，婚姻扼杀了爱情，这只是个别人片面的理解。
平凡而平淡的婚姻，只是在某种程度上淡化了爱情的浪漫而不是埋葬和扼杀。
它只是用婚姻这种形式进一步表现演绎了爱情的浪漫。
其实婚姻中并不乏浪漫，一个轻轻的拥抱，一个浅浅的眉吻，一朵旷野里的小花，一条幽默好玩的短信，一件爱人喜欢的小礼物，一句疼爱贴心的话语，一种焦急而担忧的牵挂，都是婚姻中浪漫爱情的表现形式。
Marriage is the newborn of love
This week we have learned an article entitled “Why Marriage fail”which is written by Anne Roiphe , an American feminist author, touched me deeply.
I always agree with that the marriage is an euphoric mature fruit of love developed to a certain stage. It is only an unfulfilled and vague picture of love without marriage. Nevertheless marriage is the real beauty of the painting. Only we go to the marital cathedral so that we can have a wonderful and fulfilling life.
In two people who are fell in love each other is a not true beauty in the very great degree, both performances their respective advantages when they faced each other, have a false composition, it is difficult to really get to know each other, and only through marriage, to experience love in life, in order to appreciate the true meaning of love.
In Today's turbulent world and some people do not yearning to marriage, that love to get married just an obsolete idea. They said that marriage is the tomb of love, conceive of that if the marriage is grave, and why so many people into the marriage hall? One would think that marriage killed love, this is only individuals one-sided understanding.
Ordinary and dull marriage just in a way to shackle the romance of love rather than burial and strangling. In fact we can have a romantic life in marriage which is just performance in another way. a gently embrace, a shallow eyebrow kiss, a flower in the wilderness, a humorous funny massage , a small gift, a sweet words, all is the marriage form of romantic love.
The happy marriage is not only the continuation of love, but also love the end result, is the sublimation of love, it is love to harvest the fruits of mature.。