✓Encourage the child to work outside to gain income by themselves.
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Education purpose is different
In china education’s aim is to train the child into a talent, who has a bright future. A bright future means to get a good job and to lead a simple life all their life time.
The education's goal is for making their living, for honor.
Emphasize “the learned education.”
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Main problems in today’s Chinese family education.
1. Parents’ mistake in conception of value and wrong activities leading.
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All in all, there are many differences between China and Western family education and each has its strong points and weak points. We should reject the
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Main problems in Western family education.
2. lack of communication
American think that every member in a family, he or she should had his or her own space. In their opinions, they can't interfere each other even they are in a family. And when a person is 18 years old, he may leave his parents. It means he has little time to stay with their parents. So they has less resposibility to their parents.
3. Harmful types of family education (autocratic,indulgent,careless)
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Main problems in Western family education.
1. Indulgent type of family education
➢Emphasize mechanical(机械的) memorizing.
➢Emphasize the child’s “power of understanding.”
➢If the book is read hundreds of times, its meaning is shown naturally.
repeatedly. One can not become a useful person without being beaten.
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The club helps the child to be loyal son.（棍棒底下出孝子）
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Using the encouraging language. Pay great attention to individual quality and the emotional
Different from Chinese family education, Ameirican indulgent type of family education had more harmful effection. Because over indulgent, it made a lot of social problems.Such as, teenage crime. In radio or TV, we sometimes can get a information that a 15-year-old boy shot his friend in the middle school.
✓Try every means to satisfy the children with the money.
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✓Teach the child to make plans for budget items, learn to spend money reasonably.
In western education’s aims are to train the child into a social man, who can deal with all kinds of events and own independent ability.
It is not a high expectation. “Social man” is not an utopia idea, but a requirement which is practical and easy to achieve
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About Education
The stirring of this intense debate has to do with what does it mean to be a successful parent and what does it mean to be a successful child?"
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Family May Hurt You
John Brasal
Family May Hurt You
When a person grow up, all his behaviors are determined by the family environment when he was a child. Every child grows up under his parents’ family education, what kind a person will be, depends on what kind of family education he received.
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Main problems in Western family education
3. pay too much attention on happy learning
American take happy learning serious. But, in fact, happy learning is good when children are young. Only pay attention to happy, parents may find that children’s learning levels are declined. For example, some students who get used to happy learning, can’t calculate without calculator.
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differences
1 the value of family education 2 education method 3 emotional education and punishment 4 education in managing money
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different educational purposes
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Main problems in today’s Chinese family education. 2. Utopian expectation of children’s education
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Main problems in today’s Chinese family education.
Success can not be copied,so does education.
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About Education
Parents are the first teacher of their children. The family education is related to a person's life.
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the value of family education
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Care about the reputation in educating the child.
Education is not the preparation for making their living, but for survival.
dross and absorb the cream of them (取其精华， 去其糟粕), advance the family educational
modernization.
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communication. The punishment also offends the law.
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education in managing money