正方观点：在婚姻中，责任比爱情更重要一、开篇立论（1辩2min）：亲爱的老师，同学们。
我方的辩题是在婚姻中责任要大于爱情。
首先，我方要说的是爱情并不能够使婚姻一直和睦。
或者说，爱情，并不能使婚姻长久的维持下去。
或许两个人相恋。
爱情让他们海誓山盟，让他们不畏险阻，让他们发誓相伴一生。
但是，爱情其实是有一个期限的。
当曾经的海誓山盟成为过眼烟云，当曾经的莫大勇气被时间与现实所消磨，那个相伴一生的誓言，也就变成了两个人身上的枷锁，也就意味着家庭的崩溃。
而这时，家庭中所迫切需要的就是责任！两人间的责任感让他们认识到家庭并不仅仅是他们两个人，还有他们的父母，还有他们的孩子。
在热恋的激情过后，责任让他们更冷静的为家庭的将来打算。
所以说，与爱情相比，在家庭中责任更加重要！Dear teachers and classmates. Our motion is responsibility in marriage than love. First of all, we want to say is love is not able to make a marriage have been harmony. Or, love, and can't make a lasting marriage last. Maybe two people fell in love. Love make their vows of eternal love, let them down and let them swear it forever. But, love is there is a deadline. When once the vows of eternal love as passing clouds, and had great courage was kill by time and reality, the forever pledge, also become the shackles of two people, also means that the collapse of the family. And at this point, the family is in urgent need of responsibility! Between two people of the sense of responsibility let them recognize the family is not only a matter of two people, they and their parents and their children. After the passion of love and responsibility to make them more calm plan for family in the future. So, compared with love, the more important responsibilities in the family!所以我方坚持认为，在婚姻中，责任比爱情更重要。
谢谢。
So we insist that in marriage, the responsibility is more important than love. thank you二、驳斥阶段（2辩3min）：婚姻是人类社会的一个永恒的话题。
现在不少人都在讨论，维系婚姻靠的是责任还是感情的问题。
不管怎么说，责任感对维持婚姻的稳固起到很重要的作用，这一点是无需置疑的。
所谓责任，是男女双方要对自已的小家庭共同承担的义务和自已在家庭中享有的权力。
感情是起伏不定的，而责任则是稳定不变的；感情无法讲回报，而责任则规定着双方的付出与获得；感情不能要求对方，只能要求自已，责任则永远是对双方而言的。
我国有婚姻法，要求一个合法的家庭必须是经过合法登记的。
这是为什么？这是因为责任，因为在法律上来讲，夫妻间的责任是维持家庭的必要条件。
偏激一点来讲，在我国，乃至世界上的大多数国家中，只要是合法家庭，夫妻间可以没有爱情，但是必须有责任。
这是国家承认的，这难道还说明不了责任在家庭中的重要性吗？Marriage is an eternal topic of human society. Now many people are talking about, the marriage is responsibility or emotional problems. Anyway, the sense of responsibility to maintain the marriage stable played a very important role, it is without doubt. Is the so-called responsibility, men and women both parties want to own family obligations jointly and own the rights in the family. Sentiment is ups and downs, and the responsibility is stable; Feelings can't return, while liability provisions of the both sides of the effort and get; Feelings can't ask for, can request from already,the responsibility is for both sides. Have marriage law in our country, demands a legal families must be through legal registration. Why is this? This is due to the responsibility, because in the law, the couple's responsibility is the necessary condition to maintain a family. Extreme point, in our country, and in most countries of the world, as long as it is legal family, husband and wife can do without love, but must have a responsibility. This is the country admits, this didn't also illustrate the importance of responsibility in the family?三、质辩环节（3辩2min）：1.请问对方一辩：稳定的婚姻需要什么？what is a stable marriage need?（可能回答的有）A 稳定的经济基础（保证吃饱穿暖和一定的物质享受）B 共同的生活方式（衣食住行习惯爱好）C 良好的感情2.请问对方二辩：据相关研究，爱情在婚姻里的保鲜期一般为3——4年，你觉得怎样才能在爱情消退之后，继续维持一份良好的婚姻呢？According to the related research, in the marriage, the freshness for 3-4 years of love, how can you think in love fade after continue to maintain a good marriage?好的，谢谢Ok, thank you四、总结陈词（4辩）：一位社会学博士在做毕业论文时糊涂了，因为他在归纳两份相同性质的材料时，发现结论相互矛盾。
一份是杂志社提供的4800份抽样调查报告，问的是：什么在维护婚姻中起着决定作用？90%的人回答是爱情。
可是从法院提供的资料看，根本不是那么回事，在4800对协议离婚案中，真正因感情彻底破裂而离婚的占不到10%。
那些在婚姻上失败的人，并不是找错了对象，而是没有将家庭责任放在心上。
无论从哪个角度来看，婚姻仅仅拥有爱情是不够的。
一段美满的婚姻，它不仅需要爱情来滋润，更需要彼此的尊重理解、忍让与信任。
还有更重要的是责任。
现代社会充满了太多的诱惑，城市有时就象个陷阱，张大了嘴等着你掉进去。
假如失去了责任这道堤坝的约束，任由内心的各种私欲膨胀，那么欲望泛滥的结果就是爱情的枯萎、婚姻的死亡。
责任是维系婚姻持久健康所必须的东西，它不会像爱情一样随着时间而逐渐的消退，长久的东西需要更加长久的东西来维持。
对于婚姻来说，这就是责任。
所以我方坚持认为，在婚姻中，责任比爱情更重要。
谢谢。
A doctor of sociology confused when doing graduation thesis, because he is the inductive nature of the two copies of the same material, the found conclusions contradict each other. Is a magazine provides 4800 sampling investigation report, ask is: what plays a decisive role in maintenance of marriage? 90% of people answer is love. But the information provided from the court, it doesn't work that way, in 4800 the divorce agreement, truly fractured feelings completely divorce accounts for less than 10%. Those who failed in the marriage, not the wrong object, but no family responsibility to heart. No matter from which point of view, marriage has only love is not enough.A happy marriage, it not only needs love to moisten, need more understanding, tolerance and respect each other trust. More important is responsibility. Modern society is full of too much temptation, the city is sometimes like a trap, wide mouth waiting for you to drop in. If lost the responsibility which the constraints of the dam, let the heart of various lusts inflation, is the result of the desire flood wither, the death of a marriage of love. Responsibility is necessary to the health of the marriage lasting thing, it won't like love over time and gradually fade, what need to be more things to maintain for a long time for a long time. For marriage, it is the responsibility. So we insist that in marriage, the responsibility is more important than love.Thank you自由辩论补充阶段资料：1.爱情其实是有一个期限的。