• Excuse two: Love the variability, resulting in
reduced cost of love, even if have a happy marriage will be transformed into problems of marriage, marriage is not people into is zero neglect of emotion.
The disadvantage of failing to cope with the relationships of marriage and career
• 1. The situation male and female lay on • 2. When the bond of marital relationship break up and involves influence • 3. Some thoughts on the excuses leading up to marital failure
Some excuses on marital failure
• Excuse one: He is not good at business, a
person's energy is limited, a too much energy into the enterprise to people, tend to ignore the feelings of the investment.
Involving influence
• Without career, or business is not successful, at least we can do an ordinary person, lived a normal everyday life, light is really flat. But the unfortunate marriage, or do not have a happy marriage, a big regret for life, it will run through a person's life and become unable to erase the shadow. • Therefore, the choice of marriage, in the US, meaning more than choice of career, personal interests more deeper, life background. Out of the marriage, as no shoes, no water to drink, no bed to sleep feel not know what course to take, the choice of a marriage is to choose life, choose the color of life.
The advantage of succeeding in balance the relationships between marriage and career
1. The definition of pleasant marriage 2. One part to build a delight prospect of marriage: career
How to get work-life balance
Face reality Design your own life Be careful with time frame Balance in a balanced way
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Work is a necessity in order to keep receiving those paychecks. However important it may be to be an attentive worker, it is also important to maintain a fruitful life balance. Family, friends, and even your own health and happiness should never be taken for granted. Waiting until tomorrow might just be too late to spare your health and family relationships. Always carry you home life home with you and carry you work life to work.
Definition of successful marriage
• 每天没有发生什么事情 没有特别开心的 没有特别伤心的 看见她，觉得就很安心 在一起，就很安全 你需要他 她需要你 这就是幸福
An element of marital success: career
•Person's life, family and career are indispensable. If you are a man to be the cause for the heavy, if you are a woman, but also focus on family. No man is superior to woman, but it is so, the woman home to take care of the children still has advantages, so the family must have a rational division of labor. Home and everything. • For business, it was his dream, need to work on. Do the thing that oneself like, to try to dream is a happy thing; Besides the happiness also will give you my dear family happiness! For the family, her need is love, is a caring, is the blending of the soul! As long as there is love, there is communication, the warmth of home is always your anchor harbor
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Marriage is like a net, net of others at the same time net himself, it needs to be sustained, long, constant, which doomed marriage is not damaged broken. Time, work can be interrupted, can be short, can instantly, can be hard, can cross the ring, the success is no longer sooner or later, but that opportunities. As long as eyes open; as long as have a well-thought-out plan, painstaking preparation; as long as the courage to open up, march forward courageously, the door to success does not mean in any human endeavor.
Excuse three: Give people the
feeling, love is more difficult than the business, cause a person can work, as long as willing to pay the price there will be harvest, Kung Fu, but the marriage is not so. Marriage is two people and with the tacit understanding, need to synchronize the development of both men and women, need spiritual communication, emotion, thinking, feeling the docking spirit togeth er, are indispensable.
The bond: feelings
The feelings of the traces can imprint is engraved on my heart., can invade the bone marrow, the damage degree is one of the reason and the will, let people cachexia, driven to distraction is not impossible. The spirit of the decision attitude, attitude determines the feeling, feel emotion. The person's mood once fell into a trough, the efficiency will drop, drop your scene will be caught in the limit, it will mentally impaired, or give up life. The world, in addition to motion can be absolute, almost everything in the constantly changing. People change, feelings change, marriage love is changing. So someone said, marriage is three months of conjugal love, the three years of groundless talk, tolerate each other for thirty years.