4. 婚礼差异
Wedding differences
பைடு நூலகம்国人结婚的目的
• 中国传统的婚姻目的是：一是 通过联姻合两大家族之优势， 扩大亲属同盟，即“结缘”； 二是为了男性家庭继承家庭的 血统，传宗接代，即“继统”。
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• 当然，在现今的中国社会中， 这种传统的婚姻目的受到了极 大的冲击。男女青年往往选择 “爱情至上”的婚姻。但是在 中国这样一个极富传统的社会， • 要使爱情变为婚姻的主要目的， 仍然不是一件简单的事情。
西方人的婚姻目的
• 其一是坠人爱河的恋人希望恋情有个完满的结果；
The people who fall in love hope have a perfect results
• 其二，寻找长久的异性生活伴侣，从而使自己在 生理上心理上的需要得到满足。
looking for long-term heterosexual life partner, thus make his or her physiological and psychological needs can be met.
Chinese traditional marriage purpose is: one is through marriage to Combine two houses of advantage, expand relatives, namely "affinity" alliance; the second is carrying on the family line Of course, in today's Chinese society, this kind of traditional marriage purpose gets great impact. The young men and women often choose "love is supreme" . In China, however, such a highly traditional social, want to make love become the main purpose of marriage, still not a simple matter.
西方人的择偶标准， 最主要是两个人 的互相契合，其 余的条件像家庭 背景、教育程度 等因素则可以不 在考虑之列。”
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婚姻中的夫妻关系
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男主外，女主内
• man outside, woman inside
2 家庭主妇/家庭煮夫
• housewives and househusbands
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男女平等
• 中式婚姻中的夫妻关系。传 统的中国婚姻中，丈夫往往 在婚姻中处于主导地位，而 妻子则是处于从属地位。这 种婚姻结构是由于传统的文 化分工造成的，即“男主外、 女主内”的文化分工。丈夫 是一家之主，是全家的顶梁 柱，承担着家庭生活的主要 经济责任；而妻子的任务是 管理家务，侍奉公婆
• equality of men and women
男主外，女主内
• Chinese style marital relationship between husband and wife. The traditional Chinese marriage, the husband often is in a dominant position in marriage, and his wife is subordinate status. This kind of marriage structure is due to the traditional cultural division, namely "male outside and women inside" . The husband is the head and the pillar of the family ,undertakes the main economic responsibility of the family; And his wife's mission is to manage the housework, serve in-laws
Titanic
• Performers:
中国人的择偶标准
• 在旧社会家庭原因占 很大的比重，讲求门 当户对，现在社会男 性在择偶时主要追求 女性的外貌；而女性 主要追求男性的经济 实力和工作能力。
Family reasons account for a large proportion in old society, requiring a perfect match .Now men in pursuit of female appearance; While women are the ones
mainly value male economic strength and work ability.
西方人的择偶标准
• Western marriage standards value most is two personal correspondence with each other, the rest of the factors like family background, educational level may not be considered. • Britain's prince Charles finally chooses Camilla as his lover, precisely because they have the same hobby
中西方婚姻差异
Differences between Chinese and western marriage
中西方婚姻观
1. 结婚目的的差异
The purpose of marriage
2. 择偶标准的差异
Marriage standard
3. 婚姻中的夫妻关系差异
Marital relationship between husband and wife